It was after that that Amanda began to talk about children.There was nothing involuntary about Amanda."Soon," she said, "we must begin to think of children.Not just now, but a little later.It's good to travel and have our fun, but life is unreal until there are children in the background.No woman is really content until she is a mother...." And for nearly a fortnight nothing more was said about that solitary journey round the world.
But children were not the only new topic in Amanda's talk.She set herself with an ingenious subtlety to remind her husband that there were other men in the world.The convenient fags, sometimes a little embarrassed, found their inobtrusive services being brought into the light before Benham's eyes.Most of them were much older men than himself, elderly philanderers of whom it seemed to him no sane man need be jealous, men often of forty or more, but one was a contemporary, Sir Philip Easton, a man with a touch of Spanish blood and a suggestion of Spanish fire, who quite manifestly was very much in love with Amanda and of whom she spoke with a slight perceptible difference of manner that made Benham faintly uneasy.He was ashamed of the feeling.Easton it seemed was a man of a peculiarly fine honour, so that Amanda could trust herself with him to an extent that would have been inadvisable with men of a commoner substance, and he had a gift of understanding and sympathy that was almost feminine; he could cheer one up when one was lonely and despondent.For Amanda was so methodical in the arrangement of her time that even in the full rush of a London season she could find an hour now and then for being lonely and despondent.And he was a liberal and understanding purchaser of the ascendant painters; he understood that side of Amanda's interests, a side upon which Benham was notably deficient....
"Amanda seems to like that dark boy, Poff; what is his name?--Sir Philip Easton?" said Lady Marayne.
Benham looked at her with a slightly hostile intelligence, and said nothing.
"When a man takes a wife, he has to keep her," said Lady Marayne.
"No," said Benham after consideration."I don't intend to be a wife-herd.""What?"
"Wife-herd--same as goat-herd."
"Coarse, you are sometimes, Poff--nowadays.""It's exactly what I mean.I can understand the kind of curator's interest an Oriental finds in shepherding a large establishment, but to spend my days looking after one person who ought to be able to look after herself--""She's very young."
"She's quite grown up.Anyhow I'm not a moral nursemaid.""If you leave her about and go abroad--"
"Has she been talking to you, mother?"
"The thing shows."
"But about my going abroad?"
"She said something, my little Poff."
Lady Marayne suddenly perceived that beneath Benham's indifference was something strung very tight, as though he had been thinking inordinately.He weighed his words before he spoke again."If Amanda chooses to threaten me with a sort of conditional infidelity, I don't see that it ought to change the plans I have made for my life...."7
"No aristocrat has any right to be jealous," Benham wrote."If he chances to be mated with a woman who does not see his vision or naturally go his way, he has no right to expect her, much less to compel her to go his way.What is the use of dragging an unwilling companion through morasses of uncongenial thought to unsought ends?
What is the use of dragging even a willing pretender, who has no inherent will to seek and live the aristocratic life?
"But that does not excuse him from obedience to his own call...."He wrote that very early in his examination of the Third Limitation.
Already he had thought out and judged Amanda.The very charm of her, the sweetness, the nearness and magic of her, was making him more grimly resolute to break away.All the elaborate process of thinking her over had gone on behind the mask of his silences while she had been preoccupied with her housing and establishment in London; it was with a sense of extraordinary injustice, of having had a march stolen upon her, of being unfairly trapped, that Amanda found herself faced by foregone conclusions.He was ready now even with the details of his project.She should go on with her life in London exactly as she had planned it.He would take fifteen hundred a year for himself and all the rest she might spend without check or stint as it pleased her.He was going round the world for one or two years.It was even possible he would not go alone.There was a man at Cambridge he might persuade to come with him, a don called Prothero who was peculiarly useful in helping him to hammer out his ideas....
To her it became commandingly necessary that none of these things should happen.
She tried to play upon his jealousy, but her quick instinct speedily told her that this only hardened his heart.She perceived that she must make a softer appeal.Now of a set intention she began to revive and imitate the spontaneous passion of the honeymoon; she perceived for the first time clearly how wise and righteous a thing it is for a woman to bear a child."He cannot go if I am going to have a child," she told herself.But that would mean illness, and for illness in herself or others Amanda had the intense disgust natural to her youth.Yet even illness would be better than this intolerable publication of her husband's ability to leave her side....
She had a wonderful facility of enthusiasm and she set herself forthwith to cultivate a philoprogenitive ambition, to communicate it to him.Her dread of illness disappeared; her desire for offspring grew.
"Yes," he said, "I want to have children, but I must go round the world none the less."She argued with all the concentrated subtlety of her fine keen mind.
She argued with persistence and repetition.And then suddenly so that she was astonished at herself, there came a moment when she ceased to argue.
